Are you tired of your self-doubt holding you back from going after the love you have wanted for so long? Join us for this life-changing workshop where you will discover how very special you are, and learn exactly how to express yourself in a confident and authentic way that attracts the smart, loving relationship-minded man who falls in love with you.
If you're like many single women who can't seem to find that one special man to share your life, you are probably feeling...

You are not alone.
So many single women are just like you. Sometimes you feel inadequate or less-than, especially when it comes to men. And why wouldn't you feel that way? For years you've been absorbing the "noise" from your parents, the media, so-called women's magazines and all those boys (And yes, I mean boys!) from your past. All their judgments have piled on, layer after layer, and now you're convinced that you're somehow not good enough to warrant the love of a wonderful man.
Even though you have a great career, tons of accomplishments and loving relationships with friends and family...even though you are generally pretty happy...you can't shake the occasional feeling of being HOPELESS...of being the woman who isn't getting picked.
These feelings can leave you PARALYZED. They cause you to make the same bad decisions over and over when it comes to men. Some women who feel this way just give up. Many keep settling for selfish, non-committal men who take, take, take and have nothing to give. Why? Because they think these guys are the only ones they can attract.
But here you are here reading this, which tells me that you know...somewhere...that YOU ARE a SPECIAL WOMAN who deserves a good man who loves her for life! It tells me you are figuring out that it doesn't have to be like this. You know that with some new information, your feelings can change and your life can change.
You are READY to take control, grab your power as a woman and finally find that man who loves you, laughs with you and has your back...no matter what.
I know you want to be the woman who:

You can transform your frustration and fear into courage and confidence.
You can feel powerful and PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE inside and out in ALL areas of your life. And when you do, it will completely change the way you relate to men and they to you.
Imagine you're at the grocery store, and right in front of you is a nice looking man...and he's not wearing a ring. You want to be able to look him straight in the eye...instead of looking away. You want to feel at ease as you open a conversation and then, with your usual class, happily tell him a little about yourself. (And you know exactly what to say to attract him!) You want to be be able to give him clear signals that you're interested without turning away or stumbling in fear of rejection.
You want to BE THE PICKER: the one who decides if he is worthy and good for you.And if he's not, you want to be able to walk away...knowing there is an abundance of fine men out there looking for a woman just like you.
Bobbi: My life has changed dramatically since taking your course. Taking your program was the start of giving myself permission to nurture "me" for the first time in years. As a result, my relationship with myself and everyone else improved.
I hope your clients realize that although your seminars are "titled" to be about dating and love, for women to be in a place where dating can happen and morph into a relationship, the first step of which is to clear the path of debris. Evidently, the process that you have in place was what I needed, and clearing debris has been smooth, uplifting and lightening. I am happier than I have been in a long time.
Oh, yeah, the dating part: men are tripping over themselves to get to me, which is niiiiice. ~Sharyn B. 62
YOU can be this woman who LOVES herself and ATTRACTS love! And your transformation begins during this one day workshop!
- Uncover who you are at your very core and see how it affects how you love so you can UNRAVEL DAMAGING BLOCKS that stand splat in your way and cause you to pick the wrong guys, make choices that are not good for you and give up before you find true and lasting love.
- Quiet those negative voices in your head and all that internal judgment so you can celebrate yourself as a perfectly imperfect glorious woman and become a MAGNET for the smart, relationship-minded men who are turned on by confidence and women openly express her real self.
- Learn why loving yourself not only attracts men, but leads you to the right one because, as a confident woman who loves herself, you will NO LONGER SETTLE for men who only
take, take, take; don't show up or don't commit. - Learn the five no-fail (simple) keys to getting and keeping a man's attention so you have the confidence and the skills to make connections that LEAD to DATES and, eventually to true and lasting love.
- Discover a fresh way to look at rejection so it doesn't stop you in your tracks or lead you to making those horrible choices; but rather helps you turn "no's" into real-life tools that help make your next date (and every date after that) even more productive and POSITIVE.
- Master the skills necessary to reveal your very best self in a graceful and authentic way so you ATTRACT the RIGHT MEN without appearing to brag or be too forward.
- Put it all together by actually practicing communication skills and by creating your To-Do list so you can FEEL the CONFIDENCE and POWER you need to become the woman who attracts good men who want lasting, meaningful love with a woman just like you.
Once you complete this workshop, you won't be afraid to be 100% REAL with men.
No more TWISTING like a pretzel to be what he wants you to be.
No more EXHAUSTION after dates from working so hard at being something you're not.
No more hiding out and not even trying to meet someone.
Imagine having the feeling of being seen, appreciated AND PICKED for who you really are!
Did you know:

You see...to attract relationship-minded men,
you have to know, like and respect yourself first.
- Your relationships are with men who are self-centered, controlling or refuse to commit and you want a life where you no longer SETTLE for these men who treat you like crap.

- You think you're too old, too fat, too tall, too broke, too [fill-in-the-blank] to attract a good man who loves you.
- When you meet a new man -- especially one you're interested in -- you get stuck, having NO IDEA what to say or how to GRAB HIS INTEREST.
- When it comes to talking about yourself and your life you feel paralyzed, thinking that you're not interesting enough and you are STUMPED as to what to say.
- You feel like you have a lot going for you, but DEEP DOWN you WONDER if you're just not the kind of women the relationship-minded good guys want.
- You're wishing you were the kind of woman who can just go out there, head held high, knowing you're exactly the woman men want...so YOU can be the one who picks HIM!
Here's another reason this is for you:
Because you want to feel powerful and 100% positive that you will meet the right man who truly knows and sees you...and loves you forever!
Don't know Tina yet? Here is something one of her thousands of clients wrote her:
Dr. Tina: As you suggested, I spent time with myself and thinking about what makes me happy. The roller-coaster ride finally ended, no more searching for “exciting” men. A few months later I met T___, a man I would have considered too tame for me.
Thanks to you, I am now very content with the new lifestyle I chose for me. I found a man who is nurturing, dependable, open- minded, 100% committed and able to communicate honestly, from the heart. -- Sara B.
Join us and discover
The Key to Finding True and Lasting Love:
Fall in Love with Yourself
Saturday, February 25, 2012
9:00am - 1:00pm PST
At the beautiful Long Beach, California
Shoreline Yacht Club
Your investment is only $147
This includes the half-day workshop, a personalized workbook, and
a copy of Tina's best-selling book The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again.
If this sounds like you, it's likely you lack the real, deep down self-pride and self-love that's critical to being able to create fulfilling and lasting relationships.
Until you find this in yourself (and it is most definitely there!), you will remain single or keep ending up with non-committal losers and leeches!

In just one day you will actually change the way you love...and are loved.
Look, I know you have a nice life. You probably have an accomplished career, great friends, nice things...
But you still feel there is something very special missing in your life.
NOW is the time to take action. NOW is the time to learn how to get what you truly deserve in ALL areas of your life. Waiting doesn't change one thing or get you one step closer to meeting The One.
You will learn about Love in a beautiful place along with women just like you.


- Actively participate in live group training and one-on-one personalized coaching.
(This isn't a day of lectures; it's a day filled with exercises and activities that require you to take action and help you apply what you learn to real life.) - Share your hopes and experiences with other single women who, like you, are committed to learning and growing so they and you find that good man to share their already-great lives.
- Turn the tables on your negative ideas about your worth and how men perceive you as a partner.
- Walk away with proven techniques that allow you to instantly change the way you see yourself and let others see you. (Especially the smart, strong, relationship-minded men.)
Not only do we specialize in helping women like you find love...it is our life work and our passion. We have helped thousands of women learn to love themselves, love men, and create and maintain fulfilling and loving relationships that last forever.

Bobbi Palmer, The Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40
www.DateLikeaGrownup
Bobbi is a been there, done that, dating success story.
After becoming a first-time bride at age 47 and
transforming from a content single gal to a super
fulfilled married one, Bobbi began helping other women
do what she did. Her personal experience and passion,
along with her stellar ability to teach and support you,
move you from dreading dating to joyfully searching for and
finding – not just a man who loves you – but the
yummy self-love that comes first.

Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. L.M.F.T.
Tina is a licensed psychotherapist in Southern California,
with over 30 years experience in counseling individuals and
couples and author of 15 books in 17 languages, including
The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again (Wiley), Money, Sex and Kids:
Stop Fighting about the Three Things That Can Ruin
Your Marriage (Adams Media), and
The Commuter Marriage (Adams Media).
She publishes the juicy “Happiness Tips from Tina,”
an email newsletter, and the “Dr. Romance Blog.”
Participate in this workshop and be surprised at how simple it is to shift into feeling courageous, confident and worthy!
What are you waiting for? Are you ready to dump all that self-doubt and move into your power as a beautiful, smart and loving woman who is the perfect match for some special man out there?
Take advantage of this opportunity NOW.
Join us and discover
The Key to Finding True and Lasting Love:
Fall in Love with Yourself
Saturday, Feb. 25, 2012
9 a.m. - 1 p.m. PST
At the beautiful Long Beach, California Marina, Shoreline Yacht Club
Your investment is only $147
This includes the half-day workshop, a personalized workbook, and
a copy of Tina's best-selling book The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again.

You have absolutely nothing to lose.
You have our guarantee that if you are not satisfied
with the workshop for any reason, we will refund your registration cost: no questions asked, no hard feelings.


Bobbi: My life has changed dramatically since taking your course. Taking your program was the start of giving myself permission to nurture "me" for the first time in years. As a result, my relationship with myself and everyone else improved.



